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    Here in Sweden I’m experiencing this with both older and younger generations. I know no one my age that has a kid, but so many younger generations have at least one. My little sister has two, and most of her friends do too. It’s weird.

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      My little sister has two, and most of her friends do too. It’s weird.

      I suppose that makes sense. Support has gotten much stronger, in the last decade or two, for using multiple monitors.

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    Baby: costs thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars over a minimum of 18 years

    Monitor: shows memes and games, costs a few hundred dollars for a good one, one time purchase

    Obviously the child is the stupid financial decision

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        I think the key to this scheme working, however, is that you raise your children in such a selfless way that they would want to take care of you when you have nothing more to offer them. Which is to say, the only way this method works is if it’s not a “method” at all, just love.

        Edit: inb4 honor culture. In the places you likely refer to, uncared-for elderly are considered a great dishonor. But also in these places, differences in social infrastructure and the parameters of personal finance significantly augment the decision. In short, it’s still a net cost of time and resources to raise a child, a balance that can only be paid by love.

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          I’m sure my daughter would want to. The problem is it’s completely unrealistic in the US. When I’m too old to care for myself, I’m going to insist on a nursing home. Hell, the LAN parties are going to be great by then.

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            It’s true. These days the average household income in the US isn’t enough for the added costs of elderly care without the supplement of social security and other programs. That trend only worsens.

            I’m optimistic, however, that this will change as the differences in generational attitudes towards socialism are reflected more strongly in governmental policy. The baby boomers are already losing their grip on the levers of politics, and the millennials, in particular, are much more friendly to social policies.

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              That’s true, although this administration is perfectly timed to siphon off the largest wealth transfer in US history with the demise of the boomers.

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        Making a life-changing decision - for more than just yourself - on the assumption that they will want anything to do with you in 40 years is, how do I put this… stupid as fuck?

        And that assumes they also are able-bodied, of sound mind and judgement, can care for any others financially…

        My folks are getting up there in age, and I’m not getting any younger myself. They are religious, I’m not. I’m LGBT, they are bigoted. I can understand the big picture of caring for others through community, they don’t. They are still very capable and mobile, I’m disabled. What side of the fence do you think I’m on?

        They could have just used a fucking condom. They should have. They didn’t.

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          My mom would straight up tell us we were supposed to take care of her when she got old, it’s literally the only reason I was ever given for why I was made. For that and other reasons I’m no-contact now, but it’s an incredibly toxic mindset and even worse that you’re inflicting that on your kids.

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          With all due respect, I think your personal bias is entirely coloring your opinion here. Most people have at least an amicable relationship with their parents as adults, generally much closer than that. Just because you have a bad one doesn’t mean people shouldn’t have kids.

          In fact we need more kids, especially when raised by progressive people, because the fascists are having them too.

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            we need more kids, especially when raised by progressive people, because the fascists are having them too.

            We’re not going to out-breed stupid or evil. Tbh, having a kid for the sake of shoving them into that death spiral is cruel as fuck.

            …also kids aren’t their parents - you can do all the right steps in raising them and still wind up with a fucking Nazi once they leave the house, and now we’ve got a net loss on all fronts.

            Vice versa is also true ofc, but please don’t crank out a baby just to use it as a footsoldier in a losing war on a dying planet.

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            I didn’t say ‘don’t have kids’, but you must realize that you are forcing a being into the world that may not see things as you do, regardless of what/how/why, and assuming they will follow an assumed plan that you have carved out is… controlling another being, in any capacity, that isn’t 100% concentual, is bad in my view. Hard stop, no exceptions. If that is ‘I don’t want to be your nurse in old age’, or ‘I loathe that you have created me’ or anything in between or beyond, is irrelevant.

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    Everyone here talking about second somethings. All I want to say is this is the baby with the most developed jaw, nose and brow that I’ve ever seen in my life.

    Things really were different during our parents’ times.

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    Ahh the PG32UCDM! This is best panel I have ever seen, I love mine but the only downside is when it’s off the coil whine is crazy loud, almost louder than my system.

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    Anyone here ever used curved monitors? I’m seeing them come down in price and wonder if it’s cool enough to get

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      I have one, only because it was an open-box special. I don’t really notice a difference compared to a flat screen when I’m immersed in a game or whatever.

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      Curved monitors at 32" or less are pointless imo. But I have a 55" curved and it’s glorious. The immersion is on par with VR.

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      Unless they are huge and ultra-wide, I don’t see the point. They don’t add anything at small sizes except a certain aesthetic. At large sizes, it’s a quality of life improvement as things on the edges are closer than with flat screens. They were more expensive when I looked for them, so test it for the 14-30 day return period and see if you actually like it.

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        lol. I have a 50 inch flat screen on my desk. You can get used to anything. Though my desk is almost a meter deep and the screen sits right on the edge.

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          The color distortion around the edges bug me. The view distance matters a lot. Mine is on an arm, it’s close when I working.

          Media consumption is fine

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    Two monitors suck, don’t fall for it. Traded out my 24" & 27" setup for a single 32" and loving it

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      The key is triple monitors so you don’t have a bezel in the middle of your field of view.

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        Triple monitors. Highest quality in the center. One off to the side for videos/discord/other side programs. One off to the side mounted vertically for reading documents and web pages.

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          I’m more a fan of identical triple monitors and keeping them all in the same orientation (all vertical for doing a lot of programming; all horizontal for everything else), but that might just be my perfectionism coming through.

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        bezel in the middle of your field of view

        One monitor straight ahead for games, 2nd monitor off to the side for discord or some media.

        Or 2nd monitor for the map of the game in the first monitor (game devs!! Pretty please?!).

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          Im a huge fan of a second monitor in portrait so that you can have what ever service you are using to chat on it and music at the same time.

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          I’d prefer maps that come in the box. My most precious game is Jade empire special edition, that concept art book and everything is still with me after moving half a dozen times.

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      Got a curved 45" ultrawide. It’s one of the highlights of my day sitting in front that thing.

      Still, dual monitors can be useful for sure. It may look ‘messy’, but definitely functional.

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      false, I use a 32 inch and another 32 inch one 4k the other 1080, I hold the terminal on one monitor and its pretty useful, alternatively keep youtube music on it, but I don’t think a third monitor would be useful unless it was a vertical one.

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        I’ve been thinking about getting one of those little vertical displays that are like 8 inches wide for status info. I have enough screen real estate but being able to load up certain things in it to monitor would be cool.

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      I have a dual 27” 4k setup, one of which is portrait. I like it a lot, but every time I see my friends ultra wide I consider switching to one. I just can’t justify spending $1k when what I have works well enough.