• rottingleaf@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Winning what? There are different prizes and different lottery ticket prices.

    What really tells you are not committed to winning is listening to someone’s talk on that.

  • Mac@mander.xyz
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    3 months ago

    There is nothing inherently wrong with the grindset. Lots of people have extreme dedication to their craft (not me lol).
    The grindset becomes an issue when you’re giving someone else all of your time and they’re taken advantage.

  • Mongostein@lemmy.ca
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    3 months ago

    Yeah well I don’t believe life is a race, and even if it is it’s rigged so who fucking cares?

  • werefreeatlast@lemmy.worldBanned
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    3 months ago

    For me, winning is a job with flexible hours that let’s me go home and do some garage work and then cook. I want vacation time and time to see the doctor. I want a good retirement plan and good coverage for the 3 bullshit doctor things… The body doc, the eye doc and the teeth doc. I want a doctor who enjoys work and is not simply seeing me and a thousand other people. I want cheap medicine that is effective. I want free analysis and no copay surprise. i want free hospital stays. I also want free schools k-12 and university for my kids. And I want free vaccines and freedom of speech without fear or retaliation. And I want diversity at my work, I don’t wanna be the only black guy! Or the only Chinese or Korean or woman. And I want my job to not make things that hurt people.

    • DistressedDad@lemmy.ca
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      3 months ago

      This is it. When they forced us back into the office, it was less about afternoon naps and avoiding traffic. It was more about being able to see my dr that closes at 4pm or taking my elderly parents to their appointments. Cooking dinners to avoid takeout and getting ‘me’ time between zoom calls. They took that away from us. Now it’s 9-5 and not a minute more.

      • werefreeatlast@lemmy.worldBanned
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        I’ll be joining the Dow people next week when it drops another 68 percent. They say it hurts less if you jump from the fifth floor or higher. But if you go too high like the 20th floor, you could have enough times to freakout. So you gotta find your Happy medium.

  • Pyr@lemmy.ca
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    3 months ago

    Anyone who devotes the majority of their life to their job is sort of a loser in my opinion.

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      3 months ago

      Unless it’s something they’re genuinely passionate about that gives them purpose, it’s the saddest thing in the world. I don’t think that describes the vast majority of us doing our mundane corporate slave work though.

      • MirthfulAlembic@lemmy.world
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        3 months ago

        Agreed. I’ve met some people who devoted their lives to work in nonprofits or public service who I would definitely not call losers. I wouldn’t want to be their spouse, but I admire them.

    • nectar45@lemmy.zip
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      3 months ago

      Yeah …dont fall for this shit

      He absolutely has free time and a work and life balance he just wants to take away YOUR life and exploit you

  • LanguageIsCool@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Weird. I feel like I’m winning when I’m on a long vacation doing something adventurous and I feel like I’m fucking losing when I’m staring at a computer screen in an office.

    • douglasg14b@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      For real I love it when I’m not at work having fun and living life even if it’s just boring and I’m at home just working on some house projects and riding my bike