• Nom Nom@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      This is some nice advice but

      Treat them like you would any of your male friends.

      Don’t do this. Understand that you wouldn’t do this with any random guy either. As with any new acquaintances everyone is cautious in the beginning and women more so. Whether you find the new girl appealing or not all you have to do is cautiously get to know her through your interactions with her, like any other relations you may build with initial strangers and get used to their presence and predilections.

      • Jank@literature.cafe
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        You’re telling me not to rip a wicked funny fart and sock her hard in the shoulder when she’s too much of a panty waist to laugh? Pfsh.

        Some guys have no idea how to talk to chicks.

      • Macros@discuss.tchncs.de
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        1 year ago

        This text is not from generative AI like GPT-4.

        How do I know?

        • Its original, e.g. the part around bubba. And with original I do not mean the exact phrase but the idea of the simile.
        • Is is not generic. A genAI always resorts to getting very generic the longer the text it is forced to generate is.
        • I does not follow a usual structure. genAI resorts to following a language teachers paradigm. Introduction, main part, conclusion.

        and other minor signs.

        This is just a fellow human giving solid advice.

      • tetris11@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        I can summarize: It’s an appeal to reason written from the perspective of a nice, caring, socially aware man called Bubba, who doesn’t understand why women run from him when he approaches them in the shower.

  • ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    I’m done with the bars and their drunks, and the apps with the spying, out of school, and don’t date coworkers, the advice given to me every time I complain about the fact that there are no other “third places” to meet women romantically 100% of the time is “get a hobby.” Well, see above. There is no place, women do not want to be talked to anywhere but the bar or apps which ime have been bad places to find long-term companionship.

    Can we do something about this? Can we maybe start “bars” where the focus isn’t alcohol but it is socially acceptable to say “hey I think you’re cute wanna go get some damn coffee?”

    • Syrc@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      I’ve heard of a club in my country where you put on a colored bracelet based on whether or not are you looking for a partner. Seemed like a cool idea but I think it didn’t catch on.