No thank you I’ll just keep smoking weed about it.
Migrating here (or maybe keeping both) from @ArcaneSlime@lemmy.ml
Will put an eternal curse on your enemies for a Cinemageddon invite.
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ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•‘Magic Tree House’ Author, ‘Calvin and Hobbes’ among hundreds of Tennessee book bansEnglish0·9 days agoTbf if many here heard his album Fuck 'em they’d want to cancel him too lol. I Love My Right Hand is one of the most tame songs on it, There’s No One I Hate is a wild one.
Pretty funny album though, if you can get past that sort of thing.
I’m being dismissive because it’s not likely I’m going to stop talking about my interests any time soon and really don’t care to, but thanks for the advice.
Yeah yeah well I’m sure I’ll grow out of it.
Not too familiar with ADHD, are you?
Tbf the “antiquated sexist bullshit” is told to me by women themselves, not irl Cotton Hill.
Just the other week a coworker was asking how to get (some guy I’ve never met) to ask her out, I said (as I always do) “Fuck it dude ask him yourself, it’s probable he misses the signals entirely or is worried about being creepy for misreading you just being nice,” to which she replied “no, women want to be pursued, I can’t ask him out.” And it wasn’t the first time I’d heard it, (even replied “yeah I know, but it usually works”). Sooo idk, maybe it’s really just that they’re afraid of rejection but saying that doesn’t sound as cool as wanting to be “pursued,” or maybe it is just nice to feel wanted for everyone and this is just an extension of it, but it is what it is, whatever that is. I’m just believing what they tell me for lack of evidence to the contrary. She’s cool and usually honest though afaik, we’re friends and shit, so, idk.
I’m also told it’s creepy to approach people in public except at a bar, which I no longer frequent. Then I’m told “get a hobby” but also “women don’t want to be approached while they’re trying to play d&d (example hobby),” and I’m also told to go to the gym, but then told that women don’t want another guy being a creep trying to talk to them at they gym (plus it feels disingenuous pretending I work out just to meet women, I’m also plenty active and just in shapeish from that I guess.) It’s probably fine if you’re not diagnosed as “literally does not understand social cues” ADHD and something something executive function (I have the paperwork somewhere. Somewhere…) or if you don’t care if people think you’re creepy. But for me it’s too much to navigate it regularly.
To the playing hard to get people, you’re probably right, but I’ve never got close enough to find out, because if I even ask to begin with, at the first no I say “ok” and never ask again.
Me too, but I’m told “women don’t want to be the aggressor, they want to be pursued” and then there’s the ridiculous concept of “playing hard to get,” which I’m somehow supposed to be able to navigate.
Never fully understood any of it myself, so I can’t help much. Much easier to just not talk to people, especially as a neurodivergent.
You must have asked a woman, ime that’s the “big hint” that I’m the idiot for missing. No if you’re a dude you have to pursue them but also not do that at all.
As someone with crippling ADHD, if impassioned talking about my interests is cool, consider me Miles Davis.
Problem is, the same girl who finds it attractive will find it annoying in a week or two, and all of a sudden that thing she liked makes me a jerk.
I’ve gotten it so cheap that there’s almost no reason to quit! R(D)TA and brewing my own juice!
Same lol, vaping is so much better!
Still burning the green tough, vaping is insufficient there imo.
Personally, I am immensely turned off and weirded out by that kind of dynamic, but uh hey, if its consensual and there’s a safe word, whatever floats your boat lol.
And thus, his face.
(Hell I only knew myself because I was kinda sorta forced to have that dynamic under questionable consent by my abusive ass ex. Shit happens, got real weird when she insisted on the pacifier after we became roommates and thus financially tied for a spell but she could leave me holding the bag since she wasn’t on the lease, really slow boiled me on that one. Now though you can’t bother me by calling me daddy, or…for related reasons…CNC…don’t ask… so… I win? What I’m trying to say is ladies my DMs are open lmao.)
Oh lol I thought it was about DDLG, and he was like “dear christ.”
Honestly, both fit.
Recover them from the trash folder.
Gotta spin me up a Neocities page…
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.comto Privacy@lemmy.ml•My Mac Contacted 63 Different Apple Owned Domains in One Hour - While Not is Use4·18 days agoIf they added yandex they can be GAYFAM.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.comto A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•The Los Angeles Police Department shot an Australian reporter with a rubber bullet while she was live on TV. Zero provocation.0·21 days agohttps://www.nrawomen.com/content/dispelling-the-myth-of-bullet-rise
The law of universal gravitation means that a bullet leaving the muzzle of the barrel travels in a straight line from the muzzle until the effects of gravity. As stated above, the effect of gravity starts working on the bullet immediately.
The barrel of the firearm must be slightly elevated when fired, or the bullet would drop and come into contact with the ground very fast and relatively close to the where the projectile exits the muzzle. In reality, the rifle muzzle is elevated, and the line of sight is downward toward the target. To put it in reference, when your sights are on a target, your barrel is pointed upward. Even at close range, the muzzle is elevated, be it very slightly and when aiming, the line of sight is slightly downward.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.comto A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•The Los Angeles Police Department shot an Australian reporter with a rubber bullet while she was live on TV. Zero provocation.0·21 days agoDon’t blame me, blame the dictionary that decided to define it by “affected by gravity” which honestly it still would be affected by gravity in the barrel even, since it’s on damn earth. I guess point blank only exists in space lol.
Lucky. 100° f in mine rn.