I had a pretty embarrassing situation come up recently. I decided to get my junk waxed and picked a place near where I live. I like it bare down there and heard this option was much better than shaving. It was a nice girl who was very professional, and all was going well. That was until she asked what I did for work. As soon as I told her she said “omg! My best friend works there in the same position, do you know her?”. I did immediately, as she was a close cute co-worker that I’d known for years. We started out of college together, and we’ve have a bit of a friendly rivalry as we’ve moved up the company. When I heard her ask if I knew her my heart started to race.
You see, my penis is quite small… It’s never been a big deal for me and I’ve had one good relationship before, but it’s definitely well under average both length and girth (4” x 4”). Add in the fact I’m a grower and I was nervous about getting waxed, and I’m sporting a tiny button down there. I got through the rest, but I couldn’t shake the nervousness of thinking she was going to tell my cute coworker.
This morning I walk into the office and she greets me with a “hey!” and huge smile (she usually doesn’t even say anything). I can’t imagine she didn’t get filled in over the weekend. What do you think the chances are she knows about my size?
TL;DR: got my junk waxed by a girl who turns out to be my co-workers best friend. Pretty certain she now knows about my small penis.
A waxer does not care what size your dick is and has no reason to tell anyone about it.
If ya’ll were gunna date she’d find out pretty quick anyway, and if that’s a deal-breaker for her then you’re probably better off staying friends. And maybe her friend is a bro, or at least a professional, and didn’t say anything.
If you didn’t even want to date her at some point, then it really ain’t anything, ya know?
Yea, I get what you’re saying. I wasn’t planning on dating. She already has a bf. Just embarrassing if she knows I’m small down there.
Why is it embarrassing?
How is it not? Thinking about them laughing behind my back and making jokes. I mean I’ll get over it, but definitely embarrassing.
If you’re for real: Almost nobody cares about your dick size. The few people who do are no better than the creeps who laugh at fat people for existing in public. Body shamers are the ones who should be embarrassed.
If this is all some elaborate humiliation kink thing: Stop roping nonconsenting internet bystanders into your fetish.
The size you’re describing isn’t small enough to even make jokes about. Believe me, I’ve heard women joke about size and it’s the 2 inches or less while erect range; and even then it’s about bad hookups or guys that have been awful to them.
Girls that see random flaccid dick regularly are even less likely to joke about size.Some woman prefer a “more manageable size”. Also one that won’t hurt them.
Not all woman find a big one comfortable.
This is absolutely true. The women who actually prefer 7+ inches are rare, and most explicitly seeking it haven’t actually experienced it. My girl prefers 5 or smaller because we can’t do the things she enjoys at my size.
If there is a median size, then half the men are under it. The only reason your coworker would be laughing behind your back about it, is if she was a shallow person - at that point she’ll be laughing about a lot more - height, looks.
At the end of the day, you cannot change your size, anymore than you can change your eyecolor, regrow hair as a bald person, etc. Ultimately, nobody cares about your dicksize, the only person that might is your partner, and even then it’s a prefference. A partner will never check all the “prefference” checkboxes either, since a partner that is “perfect for you” isn’t some magical entity that was created by reading your mind.
How would they know what your dick size is unless you got hard during waxing? You stated yourself that you’re a grower like a lot of guys and I’m sure a person who waxes genitals for a living would recognize this. This doesn’t make any sense.
I think just go about your business assuming her friend kept it on the down-low, and it doesn’t seem like it’s led to her treating you worse so all good. Nothing to be embarrassed about if you trust her to be a good person, which you seem to.
I get it, of course, it’s certainly a little awkward and not a position I would want to be in. I’ll bet the not knowing if she knows is probably worse than if you could know for sure she does, eh?
100% the not knowing is stressing me out. I feel like it’s at least 75% chance they discussed it considering they are best friends. Your advise is correct, but it will be awkward for a while.
This morning I walk into the office and she greets me with a “hey!” and huge smile
Your cute coworker is greeting you with a huge smile. Almost no matter the cause, she is brightened by your presence which is something you should default to being a good thing.
Go have lunch with her and enjoy your day. Don’t stress over stuff you can’t change.
I mean I would think that way if she reacted that way to seeing me every day, but this was totally out of the ordinary. I took it more as smiling because she heard about my run in over the weekend…
That’s a self-defeating attitude. Be careful with what you’re looking for, because you’re likely to find it. If you’re looking for reasons that she doesn’t like you, you’re going to find them!
More likely that she was smiling because now she knows you know her friend which means you have a shared outside connection.
Maybe she got excited thinking about how smooth you were. Either way, I would take it as a positive sign.
The size you describe isn’t small enough to merit being called small. It’s barely below the statistical mean.
What’s more is that waxers are well aware that growers exist, and (at least in my area) that’s mostly what they see. It wouldn’t even be cause for comment. The kinds of things they even bother telling each other about are like people who want fancy patterns waxed, or who have awful smelling active infections and have to be told to go get treated and come back. Occasionally they might talk about big tough guys who end up weeping like a baby (not just tears in the eyes, but bawling), or when they personally make mistakes.
At most your aesthetician told her that you got waxed and how she found out there was a connection. If your coworker bothered asking about your size she’d have gotten the usual response of, “who knows? You can never really tell during waxing because pain and fear of pain shrink things.”
Source: was married to an aesthetician for 10 years.
As I get older, I learn that not giving a fuck a out what others think is a solid strategy. Not sure my OCD and ADD can ever fully let me do that, but I am trying.
Always a chance this was a perfect ice breaker to bring your relationship together. Even if it isn’t a love interest, just getting a chance to solidify a stronger human relationship is great for everyone.
And hey, if love interest does come out of it, you dont have to worry about downstairs anymore, she knows the inventory and still wanted to greet you with a smile.
Guys, this is another one of that dude’s humiliation-kink accounts. He keeps making new posts with new accounts, it’s all the same guy. You may remember him having small feet, or an engorged stomach. Don’t engage with him.
Thanks dude you the mvp here
This is 100% not true… I have no idea what dude you are talking about.
I could see why you would think that though. This would be a good situation if I had a humiliation fetish. Unfortunately, that’s not the case.
