• qyron@sopuli.xyz
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    2 months ago

    I’d castrate by steel toed boot any friend or acquaintance of mine that said they would be taking part in something like this, thought it was normal or wrote it off to personal choice.

    If you don’t understand this as morally bankrupt, exploitative and abusive, you need to review your values.

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      2 months ago

      I’ve never gotten up to that number in a night, but I’ve gotten up to 30 or so. Planned it out as a birthday treat for myself. Something I wanted to do, because it was fun.

      Some people really do like sex.

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        2 months ago

        You’re just advertising. No better than any other company lying in internet comments to get people to click. Fuck off.

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          2 months ago

          No? The quickest I block a guy is when they offer me money. I don’t have an OF and don’t want one. (If I took money, I’d feel pressured into doing things that I don’t like.)

          If I want clicks, it’s for my own… interests.

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      2 months ago

      threatening unwanted physical harm against friends/acquaintences for any reason is morally bankrupt.

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            2 months ago

            I am. And the very sad conclusion I’m forced to draw is that most people don’t care enough about others to prevent unnecessary and easily preventable suffering.

            Like the case at hand.

            The woman ended in a hospital. Maybe - just maybe! - the men participating in the stunt should had stopped for a fraction of a second to think if they were enabling and causing unnecessary suffering.

            Maybe.

            I might be wrong.

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                2 months ago

                Just because it’s legal, doesn’t make correct.

                The same way, many of the dangerous and/or disgusting things some individuals are into are considered a disturb.

                Following that, and remembering the spirit of my original reply, that by now has been removed, I would strongly - very strongly - disincentivize any friend or acquaintance if they told me they considered either taking part or were indifferent to the outcome of such a stunt. It would be one of those friendship ending situation.

                This is a calous indiference to human suffering and an easily preventable and avoidable one. And exploitation of it. Which is extremely sad. It is a telling sign of the times we live in.

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                    2 months ago

                    I’m not advocating for generalized violence. My original remark wasn’t about that.

                    I’m not pointing fingers at the woman.

                    What I am trying to convey is that the men taking part in whatever that was never stopped to consider they were enabling and enacting harm on another human being.

                    And that could be prevented, if any person could recognize the wrong in the situation. Something which, apparently, missed everyone.

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          2 months ago

          Let me concern about the outcome of my actions.

          Maybe you should “concern about” your ability to form coherent sentences

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            2 months ago

            Is my poor domain of the english that concerning to you? I’ll be losing my sleep, tonight.

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              2 months ago

              No, your inability to form a coherent thought was just easy to target. What I really don’t like about you is that you apparently don’t see women as independent human beings with their own thoughts and goals.