• agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    what is ao wrong about just paying a prostitute to do it with?

    In most places, the law. Not that I agree with it, but that is the law and most people don’t want to risk prison.

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        2 days ago

        at the same time, I wouldn’t redirect a potential rapist to a sexworker. Shit can go incredibly wrong for her, even if he ends up paying.

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          2 days ago

          Fair, but that was the choice that was set up in the parent comment, risking prison was already a foregone conclusion.

          (And the real answer to the parent comment is “because it’s about control, not sex” but still)