• rustyfish@lemmy.world
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    19 days ago

    Lost yearly Nitro and all my friends

    That’s sadder than he seems to understand it is.

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      18 days ago

      I know “lol anon has no friends” is le epic funny meme but by friends, they obviously meant their contacts.

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        18 days ago

        I have a lot of people, I’d consider friends, that I only communicate with through discord. If I lost my account, I’d likely never hear from them again. Kinda get it.

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    19 days ago

    This is one of the bigger reasons I don’t want to use social media controlled by a corporation, it means they can choose to cut me off from people at their discretion, which will probably be based on what is convenient and easy for them.

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    18 days ago

    Never understood why anyone would want to pay 100$ a year for discord, the paid version doesnt give you that much imo

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      2 days ago

      For $100, you could rent a VPS for a year and host whatever chat service you want on it, with whatever rules you want.

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      18 days ago

      Which is a good monetation system. Premium users barely get anything but still enough to pay, while free users can do pretty much everything too.

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      18 days ago

      I spam 500mb uploads… it kinda makes sense to me

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      18 days ago

      Personally, Discord has facilitated a long distance relationship with my now wife, and nearly ten years of weekly TTRPG games. I don’t mind the cost because they cannot provide that service for free forever, and I think it’s worth it for what I get out of it. The other benefits they add for paying are almost just bonuses to me after that.

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          It cannot be overstated how much of a boon Discord’s lack of friction is for connecting with people and forming communities. It is mind-flatteningly easy to get onto Discord and into a community, and while the content of those communities is woefully unindexed deep web, forever sequestered, the external discoverability of the communities themselves is exceptional.

          You will not ever reach the same people with the same ease of use as Discord if you use a hosted alternative.

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            2 days ago

            There is friction in form of having to create an account and avoiding getting suspended or asked for a phone number, which t today seems about as easy as carding.

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            17 days ago

            the only “feature” that discord has is that other people use it.

            If you’re communicating with your wife over it, i can assure you the barrier to entry is the amount of time it takes to set up a mumble server, and the money that hosting it will cost. Configuring a mumble client takes like 12 seconds.

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      18 days ago

      I pay $30 a year for Nitro Basic. It’s only $2.50 a month and worth it to me with how much I use it.

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        Ask Mozilla how much their Firefox devs get for each financial donation. Nothing? Damn, who woulda guessed

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          The company is the heart of the software and it would not exist without the company most likely. True the execs get probably a larger share of any payments but it’s just the way the world works. It’s a piece of software produced by the company, not the developers.

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            Yes that is the sad reality of it, but I don’t think it justifies sending money to the company in the first place. They’re backed by VC and are already predisposed to screw you financially in the longrun. Why accelerate this with donations

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      18 days ago

      personally the $3 a month nitro is worth it for me, considering how much I use it. I know Lemmy hates anything capitalist but a coffee a month isnt that much

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    19 days ago

    This is why people should be worried of using these massive services, luckily it was ‘only’ Discord (if this was your primary way to interact with friends, this can be a huge deal).

    But imagine if it was your email account!

    Getting a reputable provider, self hosting or using a decentralized option is paramount for your own sanity.

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      18 days ago

      There was that man who was all in on Google.

      He had a telemedicine appointment for his son who had a problem with his penis. Dr asked him to send a close-up photo so he could diagnose the skin condition

      So the guy takes the photo with his pixel phone and sends it

      The phone automatically backs up the photo

      Google’s AI says it’s child porn, his account is deleted and police are contacted

      Police look into it and say “not porn, totally fine” but have to go to his house to tell him the was no problem because his phone was Google, his internet was Google fibre, his email was Gmail and his photo album was on Google and all that was irrevocably deleted

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      18 days ago

      This made me thinking about Valve potentially banning my 19-years-old Steam account due to some error or a mistake 💀 I heard bad things about their customer support.

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      19 days ago

      Currently having problems with GMail I lost my old phone (2fA) and no device was logged in so i could not access steam and like everything that requires that old mail

      And my phone provider or postal service is stupid because i could not get a replacement sim after multiple tries which normally works

      Googles account recovery policy is basically:

      • 2fA
      • recovery email
      • create a new account x.x

      I think the recovery mail option only gets unlocked after 6? months inactivity because ~3 months ago i did not have the option

      Now after requesting a recovery i still have to wait a full month before they maybe send me a password reset to my moms mail

      But steam support was nice. Managed to get the account by providing a product key i used a few months ago and was lucky enough not to have thrown the physical card away

      • ERROR: Earth.exe has crashed@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        18 days ago

        Currently having problems with GMail I lost my old phone (2fA)

        Yea this is exactly why I don’t use 2FA

        If the password is like 64 characters randomly generated by Keepass, the 2FA doesn’t matter.

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          18 days ago

          You can still accidentally leak your password via phishing or malware. 2FA is fine if you don’t tie it to a phone number, simplest way: install any authenticator app for TOTP tokens. Scan the QR code on multiple devices like phone + tablet, or old phone, for redundancy. Or save the secret key.

          Google and most critical services also give you a list of 10 single use emergency codes that you should print or save in Keepass - lost the phone? Nbd just use one of the codes and reset 2FA.

          I also never thought my non shared password would be public but one day I suddenly got prompted on the authenticator if I wanted to login; still no idea how or why but at least no one could get in and immediately rotated out the password.

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            You don’t evwn need to “scan” anything - you can copy and paste the steing they provide into, for example, KeepassXC, and then thoroughly back up its database.

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          Nah, any decent password manager or security application can manage multi-factor security credentials of any kind without lock-out due to phone loss.

          Password authentication is beyond primitive by offering too many avenues of attack: the full secret is transmitted & shared. Passkeys, client certificates, OTP don’t transmit the secret key. Passkeys & client certificates authentication never share a secret key, so the server can’t expose it.

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          This is what I do as well. A few services force 2fa though and also have 0 good options (let me use my flipper as a u2f through not chrome, ungoogled-chromium works, but damn), and for those I’m forced to use text.

          While I’m here, anyone have a good chrome based browser that is private and can use serial ports for flashing meshtastic devices and u2f? Need android mainly because I have ungoogled-chromium on linux, but will take recs for linux too if there’s a better one.

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    19 days ago

    Same happened to me but with animal cruelty content or something. I tried to get the account back but turns out it was a “ban wave” so a lot of other people who got banned but were innocent were doing the same so discords services got overwhelmed by the appeals. Maybe they should have realized after that that this kinda banning is a horrible approach.

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    18 days ago

    I have no qualms about your getting banned for this.

    You are who you associate with. For example: trump associates with Epstein. Should he not be banned from discord?

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      18 days ago

      So, if anyone in this thread ever posts CP elsewhere on lemmy, or even here in this thread now that you’re already here, you think your acct should be wholly banned from lemmy because you are who you associate with?

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        18 days ago

        In your analogy this Lemmy thread and a discord group are the same. I disagree with this and would say the discord group would be more akin to joining a subreddit known for sharing that type of content.

        I am of course not giving anon the benefit of the doubt because of who they are.

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          No, he didn’t say “I joined a CP discord group,” he said it was a discord group. To use your subreddit analogy, if you join a subreddit called like r/gaming or some shit where they post about games, and someone posts CP anytime after the date you joined, you should be banned even if you didn’t open the app that day.

          I’m not giving you the benefit of the doubt either, for all I know you’re on c/CP which I didn’t know existed, and I could be banned for arguing you here. Maybe I should block/report you just to be safe, hmm? Idfk what comms exist on Lenis . org or whatever your server is, sounds sketch tbh…

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          When you go into a public space and see a guy you’ve never seen or heard of before in your life and then later get arrested for associating with a sexual predator because you looked at that guy even though nothing about him even hinted at anything to do with crime of any sort.

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      18 days ago

      This was my first thought.

      Obviously did some shit then trying to gain sympathy like omg I was banned for being nice.

  • 烧烤培根汉堡@pawb.social
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    i hate discord so much my first discord account got permabanned because the owner of a server i was in went nuts and doxxed 8 year olds and my second account i got locked out for a year because they thought i was a bot and i couldnt use my phone number to verify because it was already in use on my first account then when i finally got in it had a 6 month ban because a server i was in got raided by racists that said slurs

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    I created a Discord account so I could try Midjourney and my account got blocked within a few hours. I use a VPN most of the time, can’t remember if I was with Discord so might have had the same IP as another user. Didn’t bother to set up another account.

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    I’m legitimately paranoid about this scenario, especially since I’m in a couple of ERP servers, and I was friends with ReploidRevo… yes THAT ReploidRevo, and never knew about what he did until after his downfall went viral. (Shocked the Hell out of me because he seemed so normal and on the up and up)

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        So basically if you hate a community, you just gotta go there and post some no-no pics, and everything gets nuked? Great, I’m sure nobody will abuse this.

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      I watch enough No Text To Speech to belive this is true. I even think he had a video about this

      Anon can at least hope to appeal the suspension as its not a complete ban but support might take a while

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    19 days ago

    Anon doesn’t know, Discord fails to include a libre software license text file. We do not control it, anti-libre software.

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    19 days ago

    Anon’s big mistake was not being the President of the Gulf of America.