• GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip
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    6 days ago

    Seems fine to me, though i would suggest you don’t wait for any immediate response and just leave after giving them this. Also, never bring it up again if you are going to stay their customer and they are not interested/have not contacted you.

    Just pretend it never happened, gives them a way out that’s not awkward or unconfortable.

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          All the signs that she likes me are there. She has said to me to come back down and tell her more stories after laughing at all of my stories… She is like 28 years old, maybe but constantly calls me, darling, and called me toots one time and then looked at me and smiled. Always looks me in the eye always smiling., I was in that town for 2 1/2 months on a business trip then I left for a month and came back and she was like oh I remember you and I was thinking I barely even fucking talked to you. She definitely has caught me checking her out and doesn’t seem to mind. I am taller than her so that’s a plus and the other day when I asked her how she was, she kind of leaned in across the counter, tilted her head down and then looked up smiling and said you know I’m hanging in there almost as if she was begging me to ask her out or something, but maybe I’m just delusional and fucking crazy

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              5 days ago

              I literally have not felt this way about a girl since high school, like that level of mystery and fun, you know what I mean, like I haven’t displayed this level of dorkiness in a while in regards to women

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        If there’s any interest on her part, then there’s no reason it shouldn’t. Doing it this way says you’re probably a bit shy, but she’s interesting enough to you for you to take the gamble on trying to connect anyway - many would think that’s cute & flattering. The fact you’re trying to be considerate of the potential pressure she might feel from being put in the spot if approached directly is also nice.

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          Thanks for the advice, ive been out of the dating scene for a while. I mean ive had my hook ups, but tinder is easy and beyond hookup i wasn’t interested at the time. Idk im 36 so im looking to settle down and have a real relationship. heart break sucks