• ikt@aussie.zone
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    29 days ago

    losing weight is so simple (just eat less) but so fuckin difficult (it is insanely difficult to eat less)

    when I get below my average weight (85kg) say down to like 80kg, my body acts like it’s dying

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      29 days ago

      Big part of this is to eat healthy. Fruits and veggies aren’t as calorie dense as junk food, so you can still eat enough to feel full(ish as you still need calorie deficit)

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      29 days ago

      I find that if I just eat less, I start to feel sickly and unhealthy. I learned recently that when you lose weight, like 25% of it ends up being from muscle loss. Started lifting weights and eating extra protein while I diet, and it feels great, much easier. I feel energetic and healthy and the lack of food doesn’t bother me so much.

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      29 days ago

      Yeah I’m on calorie counting right now and while so far it’s going better than expected (started from well above my average weight and just got a deskjob, so I basically don’t move all day) in the past I did feel the momentum dying and eventually I always failed and I fear it’s coming again.

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        29 days ago

        This trend, where you feel initial motivation, but then motivation stalls and you fall off the wagon, is why calorie counting doesn’t work for most people. You aren’t a robot. You do not have an unstoppable iron will. You are human. You get hungry. You get bored. You get flat tires on the same day your friend invites you over for pizza and beer. Stalling out on calorie counting isn’t strange - it is what we would expect any normal person to do.

        A far better approach is to take a more wholistic approach to health, and let the fat loss follow naturally. Stop focusing on calories. Focus on eating whole foods, mostly food you cook at home. Eat more vegetables, eat more protein, drink more water. Avoid processed junk food. Avoid drinking your calories. Avoid added sugar, white flour, and vegetable oil. Find a couple different kinds of exercise that you find enjoyable, from soccar to hiking to zumba to powerlifting to mui thai, and do them regularly. Get good sleep, and get enough sleep. Reduce stress. Spend more time with friends, and meeting interesting new people. Spend time outside in the fresh air and sunshine.

        You’re far more likely to lose weight this way, because these aren’t a goal to hit by a deadline. They are just little choices to make throughout the day, course corrections you can make now and again, and fun things to do that add to the quality of your life.