• A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world
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    26 days ago

    do you know how hard it is to have a fetish for women being bigger and taller than you, when you are over 6 and a half feet tall?

    😭

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          26 days ago

          Thats as much a fantasy as finding a 9 foot tall woman to pat me on the head and say she is proud of me.

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              25 days ago

              I am an entire warehouse, filled with pods, which themselves are full of issues, trauma, and baggage.

              and I have had 2 therapists be completely dumbfounded and shocked at how well adjusted I am for all of it, lol.

              its rarely a good thing when you shock a therapist.

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                25 days ago

                We all are, to varying degrees. Some are just more aware of it than others.

                But I didn’t approach your last remark by the harsher side. All the images coming to mind as I read it were censorable out of being plain stupid and childish.

                Therapists can easily suffer of professional bias. I’ve done therapy as well and it came to a point when I felt my therapists were overly concerned and trying to victimize me. It is their role to help us be aware of things that may be lacking or holding us back but their trainning can make them view things as so damaging that a person being to cope and manage trauma by themselves and lead a somewhat balanced life is an impossible concept.