• qyron@sopuli.xyz
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    2 months ago

    be 20 y/o permavirgin

    I was 22 when I had my first time. Never considered myself a permavirgin.

    Happy the poster found happiness for the following reasons:

    a) he got laid

    b) he’s no longer a virgin

    c) he found happiness

    d) he found someone to love and that loves him back

    e) there are two more people happy in the world

    but, holy turtle on a skateboard, am I really happy for having one less doofus complaining of being alone.

    Bring on the hate! I love you all!

    • uniquethrowagay@feddit.org
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      2 months ago

      I was 29 years old when I met my first girlfriend and had my first sex and I regret nothing. I didn’t really realize it at the time, but I wasn’t at all ready at 20 years old.

        • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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          2 months ago

          So given your other comment, a lack of experience is normal here. Speaking as someone who has been on many sides of the ability to get laid spectrum from “nobody will ever fuck me” to regular group sex, to “both of my partners have been in long funks of not wanting sex and I’ve grown too picky for casual” the think you need to understand is that it’s not going to just happen, but trying too hard will ensure it doesn’t.

          Go out, meet new people, dress nice for it, and be your most enjoyable to be around self, and start learning to flirt (it’s a skill and everyone starts terrible at it).

  • شاهد على إبادة@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    Being attracted to femboys isn’t homosexual. The attraction is to the femininity in them. Both are happy, all is good.

    I apologize if any of the words are offensive or inappropriate. Someone once wrote that “femboy” is offensive, I don’t know of an alternative word.

    • djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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      2 months ago

      Nah, I think we’ve mostly reclaimed femboy at this point. IMO, people should move past gender and just identify as tops and bottoms. This greentext is a perfect union between a top and a bottom.