Thanks for confirming!

I’m sure we can extend the scope to those as well

@db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com , what do you think?

Could we maybe keep hexbear drama to !meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works ?

It’s becoming hard to follow with threads talking about hexbear posted from one community (!meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works ) to another (here)

Four years ago, I realised I was goddessgender, and My goddess-mother suggested I try out capitalised pronouns.

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/14491263/9762789

That story didn’t happen.

Then what is this? https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/14491263

Seeing a name that seems to exist on a meme presenting a whole community as self harming seems enough to just ask the poster to remove it.

If you see a car picture with a plate number in a post, are you going to contact the DMV to see if the plate number is assigned, or just ask the poster to remove that sensitive information?

I don’t really see the drama here

Even if it’s a fake user, you were still targeting the whole instance in your meme.

Requesting to remove the name of the instance seems reasonable.

person

Instance. Ada’s message says instance. It’s even in your screenshot.

I reread your message again, and it makes sense that even if the username is made up, it’s better to not mention a specific instance in this kind of posts.

You made a reasonable request.

I’m talking about the aussie.zone user with the specific pronouns. I just read a thread from a while ago about their pronouns, you are actually in that thread too.

I can’t find the meme you mention in the OP as it has been removed, but it might be that Ada thought you were speaking about that person and asked you to remove that mention.

We’ll probably never know as you’ve been banned and your posts removed.

I remember that user too, they indeed seem to be a real user