I am a social guy, talking to people comes quite natural to me. Therefore I make friends easily. I have had a ton of crushes and was also in love for a couple of times. However I have never had any relationship to speak of (I’m 25, btw), and I feel like I’m missing out on something.

When it comes to relationships I honestly don’t know how people do it. I don’t know what makes someone “like” someone else, safe for their appearance. Or how someone “starts” to see another as a romantic partner rather than platonic. I feel like I only know how to serve friendship. So how do people develop feelings for someone?

  • hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    Have you considered that you may be on the aromantic spectrum? To me it sounds like despite experiencing sexual attraction, you feel little to no romantic attraction.

    • throwawaysalami@lemm.eeOP
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      4 days ago

      Sorta, I don’t really care that much for the relationship part. I mean, if I like the girl and she wants to make it official I’ll play ball, ya know.