• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    it’s not that hard to have basic levels of respect for people using neo pronouns, and if they’re trolling then let them slip up and get banned for that.

    it’s just an observed pattern of behavior that .world has a lot of cis people who misgender people when they disagree with them like it’s an argument

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        So now it’s not the .world 196, it’s .world in general.

        there was a pretty clear reason they left and went to .world, they fit the culture better there

        I don’t even use /196 I was just watching from the sidelines for that one lol

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            “I have a vibe that 196 doesn’t respect pronouns, but I don’t actually use 196”.

            I said that was the reason they left, because it was a huge debacle that nobody could miss when it happened.

            I’m the esl person here, is reading what I’m saying instead of of making up shit really that difficult?

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                    you also claimed that you don’t use 196 despite having been banned from 196, so maybe you aren’t the most reliable narrator.

                    it’s called /all I hadn’t bothered the block the new 196 so it showed up, I commented because I took it as some earnestly asking for advice, rather than a cj thread

                    There was disagreement with the admins over how to moderate 196, especially regarding ban lengths and presumption of good faith

                    wonder what the good faith issue was 🤔

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            I was banned from blahaj 196 for suggesting that they have a healthy relationship with other people IRL instead of behaving terminally online, yes

            you should re-block me your posts are awful