I pretended to like my girlfriend because I’m aromantic. I lied about liking her and then ghosted her. Then, I got all my friends to ignore and hate her.

  • BougieBirdie@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    Bad person, probably not. That’s a harsh descriptor to apply for a single transgression.

    I’d call this behaviour to avoid though. Most people don’t like being lied to or ghosted

    Sometimes you can’t really avoid it, like if safety is a concern. But if you lie and ghost because feelings are messy then it causes other people to have messy feelings

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    5 days ago

    Yes you are. What you did is a perfect example of wanting to eat your cake and have it too.

    Just be honest man…

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    5 days ago

    I lied about liking her and then ghosted her.

    You clearly already know you’re an asshoke