• merc@sh.itjust.works
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    24 days ago

    Note that he says: “just ask her out”.

    Don’t try to find out anything more about her. Don’t try to see if maybe she might be interested. Don’t do anything other than ask her out.

    Now, sure, it’s going to be hard to get someone to go out with you unless at some point you ask them out. But, if you follow his advice you’re probably going to face a lot more rejection before you get a yes… unless you look like him.

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      23 days ago

      Note that he says “if you like her”, not “if you think a stranger is hot”

      This entirely speaks to a situation where you like someone, know their interests,etc, but you’re nervous about ruining the relationship you do have. AKA my entire high school experience lol