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minus-squareTonyOstrich@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down1·24 days agoWhy doesn’t she have to ask me out? That doesn’t seem very equitable.
minus-squarejjjalljs@ttrpg.networklinkfedilinkarrow-up9arrow-down3·24 days agoShe could ask you out. But if you just wait you’re giving up your initiative. Use your agency.
minus-squaresugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up5·24 days agoExactly. I’m a dude and my SO all but asked me out (asked for my number and whatnot). At some point someone needs to take initiative, and the sooner that happens, the better it is for everyone, so it might as well be you, regardless of your gender.
Why doesn’t she have to ask me out? That doesn’t seem very equitable.
She could ask you out. But if you just wait you’re giving up your initiative. Use your agency.
Exactly. I’m a dude and my SO all but asked me out (asked for my number and whatnot). At some point someone needs to take initiative, and the sooner that happens, the better it is for everyone, so it might as well be you, regardless of your gender.