• peoplebeproblems@midwest.social
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    1 day ago

    I’ll be honest, none of my friends would get along with each other.

    One friend and I make more than the other 3 combined. One friend has so many things he does and groups of friends I don’t know, so I don’t get to hang out with him much. Another friend is all the nuerodivergence, intelligent, but a filterless activist and who really could choose her battles better. The last friend can be overwhelming to talk to.

    Having them in a group would just ruin it

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      16 hours ago

      Username checks out so hard LOL.

      It’s a hard fact of life that friendship compatibility isn’t a transitive property. I lament that differing people I like to hang out with, likely wouldn’t wanna hang out with each other.

      And then I’m like “How the heck do friend groups get started then?!” Lol

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        15 hours ago

        I had a friend group in college. It was awesome. Then we graduated and never saw eachother again. Primarily because we were the only remaining CS students in our year.