I’ve not been in a relationship for 6 years and to add I’ve never “hit the sack” with someone.

I do speak with friends and peers, but I feel that I worry too much about finding that someone and losing my virginity.

Surely it’s nothing to dwell on too much right? It’s just a facet of life like driving the first time or being able to go places?

  • DistressedDad@lemmy.caEnglish
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    1 month ago

    Is it normal? Yes. Is it healthy? No. I wish I spent my younger years focused on building myself rather than worrying about things out of my control.

    Find yourself. Find what motivates you and makes you happy. Learn to be happy on your own. Learn to be confident without the validation from others. As you go through that journey, you’ll run into similar like-minded people and maybe some that you’re actually attracted to (lol)

    It’ll happen when you least expect it when you’re focused on other priorities. Hope this helps.