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“Keep moving the goalposts”? Mate this is my first comment in this comment chain. And it does make a difference to me personally if someone said something before a very public turnaround 5 years ago, or recently after this change

When did he state this? Recently?

Absolutely true for the time the article was written (2017). He changed his ways after the Christchurch attacks which happened in 2019.

“It’s normal to not want to hang out with your partners parents.”

Yeah, for 20 year olds maybe- ah, now I remember what post I commented this other. OK that’s fair. If you’re like 40 years old and still say “I don’t want to spend any time with my in-laws at all” I personally would consider that weird though.

True I worded it weirdly.

People who downvote and don’t comment why they disagree are cowards in my book, btw.

Agree on this. But if the boyfriend already feels uncomfortable staying at her parents house for just a meal, sleeping and having a shit, then something more is going on with him.